If you don’t believe public education is a social goal because it is social infrastructure, just say so. Or maybe you did somewhere in that. The idea that you would think I, of all people, would want any child to be a cog in the machine shows just how little you understand WHY I support comprehensive public education as social infrastructure. I oppose the idea that the purpose of education, especially and specifically public education, is to create little workers for the capitalist class. And more importantly, how little you understand about why I became a teacher in the first place.
It matters whether a school is private or public because of what those words mean. If private schools are open to anyone, at all times, regardless of means and without discrimination of any kind, and are supported by public dollars, then they are not private schools, are they? Then they’re public schools. But if they are public schools, receiving public funds, accepting all students publicly, then they should also be subject to public oversight.
In the case of parochial schools, I attended Catholic schools where many children received scholarships or subsidised tuition. As I have stated, they were particularly good about racial/ethnic and especially class diversity. Which is very much in-keeping with the Jesuit messaging around education and Catholic social justice oriented activism more generally. I had a tough time, as I am sure @oldmacs probably did, because I was obviously queer. I would love for the Vatican to release its centuries hoarded gold to provide the various Diocesan and Order schools with the ability to take every student who shows up. How could you suggest I’d be against that? However, I will say, if we had a comprehensive public education system where that was already true, there would be no need for these schools to fill. I don’t understand why that’s hard to grasp. In the case of your special needs child, it is a damning condemnation of the public school system as it is currently set up and funded that he isn’t able to receive the support he needs. How does one turn this into support for private schools rather than a vociferous, outraged demand that the public school system be fixed? That’s my reaction to your situation. Anger on your behalf that the public school system has failed you. Anger that society sees this as tolerable. It’s infuriating.
I have met many a time server in every school in which I have been a student, which is why I became a teacher. I am a fierce advocate for adolescents/teenagers specifically, and that was because I had precious few advocates of my own. I have had drag-down, knock-out fights with time server coworkers and myopic administrations in public and private schools in which I have worked. These folks, many of them who power-trip on their control of students, who do not see their charges as real and already complete humans, should not be in education. You are right that it is the quality of the teachers and the programs at a school, and those teachers and programs should be provided to every child, everywhere, at no cost to themselves.
To quote Aaron Sorkin, via Sam Seaborn: